Hello and Welcome DutchessKitty,
Like Seasonal I am happy for you to send me a pm anytime, of course there are the newbie helpers with the pink names they are very friendly people who will also answer any questions you might have.
There are also some guides you might like to read to help you get to know the site and its rules better,
Click this link pleaseIf you click the link above it will take you to a guide that has all the newbie helpers names and what they are best at, it also has a few good links to the other guides you might like to read.
Anyway have a good time here,
from Willow